Moms: You Can Still Pursue Your Dream Career

When you’re a mom it can sometimes feel liek you have to put all of your own dreams, goals, and career plans on the backburner so that you can ensure your kids get everything they need to grow into well-adjusted young adults, And, sure, when they are really young, your ambitions may need to take a backseat for a little while, but only for a little while. Being a mom does not mean you have to write yourself, off, or that anyone else should write you off either, In fact, being a busy mom builds character and skills that can help you to succeed.

So, if you’re ready to go after your dream career, don’t let anyone stop you, and check out these 10 things that will help you on your journey.

1.Rediscover What Sets Your Heart on Fire

Remember those pre-kid days when you had passions other than finding the best stain remover? It’s time to dust off those old dreams and bring them back front and center where they belong. Whether it’s starting your own business, writing a novel, getting a ski resort job that allows you to spend time on the slopes, having an active career in physical therapy, or becoming a pastry chef, there’s no expiration date on your aspirations, and there is nothing to stop you getting there no matter what.

2. The Magic of Time Management

Time management is your new best friend if you are looking to make big things happen in the work sense. And no, I don’t mean the kind of ‘time management’ that involves running after your toddler while simultaneously trying to make a phone call. I mean real, actual planning. Whether it’s waking up an hour earlier (yes, you can survive on one less hour of sleep, trust me) or scheduling specific blocks of time for your career pursuits, every minute counts.

3. Embrace the Chaos (and Learn to Love It)

Let’s face it, your house might not be as spotless as it used to be, and that’s okay. Embrace the chaos. A little mess never hurt anyone (except for that one time you stepped on a Lego, but we don’t talk about that). The point is, perfection is overrated. Sometimes, good enough is just, well, good enough.

4. Network Like a Boss (Even in Yoga Pants)

Networking isn’t just for those in suits and high heels. The digital age has made connecting with others easier than ever. Social media, online forums, virtual conferences – use them. And the best part? You can network in your yoga pants, and no one will be any the wiser.

5. The Power of Online Learning

Gone are the days when learning new skills meant sitting in a classroom. The internet is your oyster, and online courses are the pearls. Whether it’s night classes, online seminars, or YouTube tutorials, there’s a wealth of knowledge at your fingertips, just waiting to be explored.

6. Don’t Be Afraid to Ask for Help

It takes a village to raise a child, and sometimes that village includes a babysitter, a helpful neighbor, or an understanding partner. Don’t be afraid to ask for help. It’s not a sign of weakness; it’s a strategic move.

7. Set Realistic Goals (and Celebrate the Small Wins)

Rome wasn’t built in a day, and your career won’t be either. Set realistic goals and celebrate the small victories. Managed to write a page of your novel? Awesome. Made it through an online course module? High five. Remember, every step forward is a step in the right direction.

8. The Art of Saying No (Politely, of Course)

You can’t do everything, and that’s okay. Learn to say no. No to unnecessary commitments, no to time-consuming favors, no to anything that doesn’t serve your goals. It’s like decluttering your schedule, and it’s surprisingly liberating.

9. Find Your Tribe

Surround yourself with supportive people. Find other mompreneurs, join support groups, connect with like-minded individuals who understand your struggles and triumphs. It’s like having a cheerleading squad, but with more coffee and empathy.

10. Remember Why You Started

On those tough days when everything seems impossible, remember why you started out and what it would mean to you to achieve your dream job. Hold onto that vision of your dream career come what may. It’s your guiding light, your North Star, your reason to keep pushing forward.

Always try to remember, you’re not just a mom; you’re a woman with ambitions, talents, and a heck of a lot to offer the world. If you hold this close to your heart, then no matter how hard it might get juggling kids and the demands of pursuing your dream job, you will always be able to hang on in there and turn those dreams into a reality.