I just wanted to do a quick post to let you know it might be a bit slow around her for a bit. My dad passed away unexpectedly on Wednesday, and we are all in shock.
My dad was the strongest most determined man ever. He overcame so many health issues in the past few years, and he would not give up. He is my hero.
Part of me is in auto-pilot mode. I am doing what needs to be done. The other part is grieving deeply. My mind is a million places and I am extremely restless. Please bear with me while I come to grips with this. I might post frequently over the next few days, I might not post at all. In a way I think it helps, as I am focusing on something. But this is still all so new and I don’t know how I will feel from day to day. I am just doing what feels “right” at the time.
Thank you for the outpouring of prayers and support on Facebook, via email, Twitter, etc. I never imagined the online world could have such an impact and that words from across the miles, and people I’ve never even met, could mean so much.
Please hold tight to those you love, and always let them know you love them. Always.
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I am so sorry to hear about your father! Thanks for sharing the picture of you and your father! His smile is fabulous!
I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ll keep you in my prayers.
Sorry for your loss. I was there last year with my mom. Just take it day by day.
I’m sorry for your loss. We are praying for you and your family….
Oh, Jen, I’m so sorry to hear that. I know you had hoped he’d recover a few days ago – so sad the last effort did not help. There’s no way real comfort can be express through a ‘comment’ but I sincerely hope the best for you and your family in coping with the loss. Thank you for using your experience to remind all other to not take our loved ones for granted.
I am so sorry for your loss sweetie. He sounds like a wonderful man. You may have lost a father, but Heaven has gained one exceptional angel.
Oh my goodness..Heaven really did. Thank you.
So very sorry to read about your dad. I can relate and know how shocked you must feel. The same thing happened to me with my mother a few years ago. She never had any serious health issues but I get a call one morning telling me that she was gone. I still have days when I can’t believe that she is really gone. I have to tell you this though. On the night before her funeral I prayed to her to please give me a sign that she was with me. That morning I found 3 dimes as I was getting ready. All in separate places where I knew they weren’t there before. I just knew instinctively that they were from her. (Don’t know why I knew but I just did) I was telling my brothers and sister in laws about on the way to the funeral. I could tell that they didn’t believe me but they went along with it. As my mom’s cousin was giving the eulogy he mentioned that he had talked to her family for stories. Her brothers all told of when they were growing up they would ask their sister to do them a favor. She would always charge them a dime! He mentioned 3 different times. My brothers and sister in laws all looked at me and all I could do was smile. Now whenever I am having a bad day or really missing her, I will find a dime. Mostly I find them on my nightstand before I go to bed. I now have a bowl full of these dimes and it gives me great comfort to know that she is still with me even though I can’t see her. Who knows maybe if you pray to your dad to give you a sign something like this may happen for you. Even if it doesn’t you know that he is always going to be in your heart and memories are something that never go away. Sending big hugs out to you!
Pamela, this is a beautiful story.There is so much comfort in messages like this. I remember the night my mom was dying – it was the middle of the night and we had been with her for hours. I needed some air and I went outside. I remember staring at this little tree in the parking light – swaying very gently. For some reason it stuck with me, and I can’t explain it. The next few days after mom had died, I would sit out in our backyard and think of her. The first day this very light breeze (a very unique one) washed over me and she was hugging me. Even to this day, certain breezes feel like hugs from her.
I am so sorry you lost your mom so suddenly – especially with no health problems. I can imagine the shock and pain.
I am going to ask my dad for a sign…thank you so much for commenting (hugs)
Sending prayers your way……
I am so very sorry for your loss.
I am so sorry Jen. My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this time. Hugs mama!
I am so sorry – will be praying for you. God will help you.
I’m so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family.
I’m so sorry for your loss. My heart and prayers are going out to you and your entire family. Hugs Jennifer.
I just found out Speedy. I am so sorry for your loss. Thursday marked my Dad’s 11 year anniversary in Heaven. I still miss him every day. You are in my prayers.
xoxo
Leslie
You just do what you have to do Jen and we’ll be here no matter what that is! If you need support, just say the word and I know your readers and internet friends won’t hesitate to give it to you!
We all love you! Keep doing what you’re doing. Of course my thoughts and loving energies are always comin’ your way 🙂
I know losing a dad is hard, I can only imagine it’s ten times harder when you’re so close. I wish I could take some of your grief that’s weighing on you right now. Going through the motions isn’t a bad thing – you do what you need to. Take your time and ignore any pressures you feel on the PR side of things – you need to do what’s right for you right now. Love ya, I do.
I just love you. Thank you for helping me through all of this…you have no idea how much it means to me (hugs)
I am sorry for your loss, Jennifer. I hope that you can find some peace and comfort.
Jen, I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m sending you much love, I hope you know that.
The following always comforts me, maybe it will you too –
“Perhaps they are not stars, but rather openings in heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy.”
~Eskimo Proverb
Love you friend. Love you.
Thank you Sky – I absolutely love that proverb, and I will remember that. Love you too (hugs)
i’m so very sorry for your loss! i’ll be keeping you and your family in my prayers as you move thru these next difficult days
What a lovely photo of you and your dad. I am so sorry for your sudden loss. The same thing happened to me with my dad. He died suddenly of a heart attack. I loved him so much; we were very close. He was the best father a daughter could have. It has been about 1 1/2 years now. It does get easier, and I’m just beginning to find some comfort in my memories. Yes, you are in shock at the moment. Take care of yourself. My heart goes out to you. I know how sad this is. Just know that you will feel better, and it does get better.
BTW, my dad has left signs that he is with me. Look for them.
I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. I also lost my dad unexpectedly a few years ago. I’ll be thinking of you and your family.
-michelle
I am so, so sorry…. hugs and prayers for you and your family… <3
I’m so sorry for your loss, Jen. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
I am so very sorry to hear of your dad’s passing. My heart goes out to you and your family and I pray for peace for all of you during this time.
Thank you so much…
My Warmest Thoughts go out to you and your family. I’m so sorry.
–Jayme
So so sorry to hear of your loss. Prayers are with you and your family…
I am so sorry for your loss…. I could tell just by his picture that you posted that he was a one-of-a-kind man who would definately be loved and missed by many.